15:30:51	 From Sonya Sigler : understood
15:31:59	 From Sonya Sigler : How do I get my husband to understand I mended emotional & physical supprt
15:33:25	 From Sonya Sigler : apparently I don’t have enough bandwidth for audio or video
15:40:16	 From Sonya Sigler : I definitely found this in my current relationship
15:40:23	 From Sonya Sigler : It takes gettign used to
16:20:15	 From Sonya Sigler : My must haves are: partner who is intellectually curious, adventurer/explorer, kind, family man, doing good, likes sex (preferably every day)
16:21:49	 From Kathy Heilmann : What about compatible politics as a must have?  Lack of it turned out to be foundational to why my last relationship ended.
16:21:57	 From Sonya Sigler : Anyone have questions they want to ask?
16:22:41	 From Michelle Hoffmann : Having core values in common is vital...the politics follow as a subset.
16:23:45	 From Summer Bridges  To  Sonya Sigler(privately) : How do I know if I am in a toxic relationship - I feel uncomfortable and triggered sometimes by my spouse but how do I know if it is me v. him?
16:24:46	 From Carol Allen : Great list! :0
16:24:51	 From Carol Allen : ;))
16:25:18	 From Summer Bridges  To  Sonya Sigler(privately) : How do I know if one partner is doing more - I feel like I am doing more but I am not sure if I am neglecting or failing to take into account his contributions
16:27:38	 From Lesle Litton : How did you approach your partner with working on 'your must haves' assuming they didn't have all of them? without putting him on defense?
16:29:47	 From Michelle Hoffmann : Here is a gift. Choose your top core values and invite your partner to do the same. Appreciate the intersection between your values
16:29:57	 From Karen Lorre : Also, women should not do more at all. Feminine enemy lets things.come to us
16:30:32	 From Karen Lorre : Get lazy. If you are a woman. Let yourself receive
16:31:53	 From Summer Bridges : When I tried to give less - my spouse said I was lazy and then bring up past things that he had done for me (co-sign student loan) and he just wouldn't do these tasks. So how can I overcome this sort of resistance from him?
16:32:00	 From Ellen @TPL : The Second Shift by Arlie Rothschild is the best research on the data regarding this.
16:32:13	 From Michele : this relationship stuff sounds like a lot of work...I think I have always just been happier single
16:34:34	 From Summer Bridges : @Michele lol
16:35:18	 From Michelle Hoffmann : You are enough.  A client shared she is 'enough' like the protein she eats when she enjoys a good steak.....and an intimate relationship is the seasoning to enjoy it in an extraordinary way.
16:35:43	 From Karen Lorre : ChronicPleasureBook.com  to get your free books
16:35:55	 From Michelle Hoffmann : Relationshipping101.com
16:36:08	 From Lesle Litton : Thank you!! I really enjoyed the talk
16:36:11	 From Michelle Hoffmann : YourLifeWorthLiving.org for free book
16:36:25	 From Sonya Sigler : Ask the hard questions early
16:36:36	 From Terri McDowell : Thank you, so much, for this session!
16:36:50	 From Michelle Hoffmann : Any of you are welcome to schedule a relationship strategy call with me @ Relationshipping101.com
16:37:02	 From Summer Bridges : I feel that my spouse was a totally different person when we first dated actually. He then switched when we got married and I was crying daily because he literally berated me every day for how I put dishes away or put pizza in aluminum foil
16:38:06	 From Michelle Hoffmann : Summer, You deserve to be empowered to own your valuable self. Let's chat about how to rebuild your fantastic self to be adored again.
16:39:15	 From Terri McDowell : THANK YOU!
16:39:33	 From Summer Bridges : Thank you very much ladies - I really appreciate it.
16:40:37	 From Carol Allen : www.RightManReport.com for a free book for women... and to discover my astrology and love newsletter. THANKS, everyone!!!
16:41:09	 From Alfredo Mendoza : Very informative! Thank You ladies! Sonya your haircut is adorable. Say hey to Kier!
16:41:49	 From Terri McDowell  To  Sonya Sigler(privately) : agreed, I love your hair! Have fun in AK and travel safely!!
16:43:50	 From Kathy Heilmann : Carol Allen, the sign up form on your website isn't working for me
16:45:01	 From Carol Allen : Sonya, thank you!! This was great! xo
16:45:43	 From Michelle Hoffmann : Thank you for creating this incredible forum Sonya. What an incredible group we are able to enjoy with each of you present. So much love!
16:46:42	 From Carol Allen : I